Saying "NO"

Saying "No" is about the hardest thing people can do. Well atleast the people who

are always looking for everyone else to like them...

Sometimes, you need to say no though. Why does saying "No" make you feel like a monster? Why does it make you feel selfish, though you know that the party you are saying "No" to, is being perfectly selfish themselves?...

I think the trick to saying "No" lies in not thinking too deeply about it. Don't worry what anyone else will think - if you cannot do it, you just can't!... Say "No", and don't think about it. Go ahead and do what you have to...They can manage. They've done it before....

Now, all I have to do is believe in all this crap myself! :)